Most WordPress “security problems” are not WordPress problems. They are server issues, plugin chaos, weak credentials or alert fatigue. Here is the security model I use for clients who want real protection without drowning in warnings.
1. Server first security
Good WordPress security starts outside WordPress.
- Fail2ban for SSH and login attempts.
- Firewall rules: only ports 80 and 443 open.
- Disable XML RPC unless you genuinely need it.
- Daily offsite backups that are not stored on the same server.
2. A sane plugin stack
You do not need a long list of security plugins to be safe.
- One firewall plugin only: Wordfence or Patchstack, not both.
- No “scan every hour” schedules, they overload small servers.
- Update discipline: aim for a weekly slot, not random changes every day.
3. Strong credentials, zero drama
- Passphrases over passwords: easier to remember, harder to break.
- Limit admin users to the bare minimum.
- Use application passwords for integrations and automations.
4. Prevent alert fatigue
The biggest security risk is often notifications that are so noisy you start ignoring them.
- Only critical alerts via email.
- Weekly rollup for non critical issues.
- No constant “update available” spam, you already know updates exist.
5. A simple monthly audit ritual
- Check users and remove accounts that are no longer needed.
- Check that backups can be restored successfully.
- Check firewall logs for new patterns and trends.
- Review plugins for abandonment or long gaps in updates.
Closing thoughts
Security grows from habits, not from tools alone. A cleaner stack and a calmer workflow protect more sites than any expensive add on. If you want help cleaning up a chaotic WordPress setup or reducing your alert load, I am always happy to take a look.